This is a post I promised to show her, the following morning. I write this on the way home sitting on the train waiting for her to tell me when she gets home safely, I myself anxious until she does. So... the reason..?
Well... we all have anxieties... Some not so worrying and others weigh heavily on our mind. The light ones are your everyday worries... that slowly wear you out over the day. Those are fine. Then you have the ones that weigh heavily on you.
They put so much weight on you that can’t sleep at night, at least not effectively. You lie in bed with thoughts running through your head, unable to stop worrying. You eventually fall asleep, but when you wake up... your eyes are heavy. You are once again reminded by your anxieties and the process repeats... compounding as the days go by.
What you need to do is stop worrying. Well of course if it was that easy you wouldn’t have a problem.
Sometimes, a little intervention does the trick. This works especially when you’re in a relationship, and you’re worried about it. Because of it, the stress... the confusion... the anxiety... may just make you fall... and lose the love of your life.
So this intervention I was speaking about... well... you’re in a relationship and what else is better than the comfort of your partner. If you just talk to them, you’ll soon realise the truth behind your anxieties... that they simply did not need to exist to begin with.
In a relationship, communication goes a long way. And sometimes, on your own initiative, if you see that something’s worrying your partner and if you think hard enough, you can do something about it.
I know a girl who worries all the time. She worries about me. If only she could tell me all her worries...
When I started to write this post... it was intended to ease her anxiety. Turns out she told me them, herself. How happy I was, to tell her that she didn’t need to worry, that the answers that she wanted, were simply given as she asked.
She is an amazing girl... that everything she isn’t, is not what I want. I want her... everything that she is. She is every bit the girl that I want.
This girl, I love, I want to spend the rest of my life with. Watching her fall asleep, in this case... realising she fell asleep messaging me, I find so cute. I wait till the day when I can fall asleep with her, by my side, a moment I’ll treasure every day of my life.
I miss you babe, every second you're not here with me. Sweet dreams, goodnight <3
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