A relationship should be free from lies and secrets, especially those that may affect it. What goes through a person’s mind when they lie? Why do they need to hide such secrets? The answer lies within their motive.
There are two kinds of people. The ones who like to live a lie, and those afraid of the truth.
Let’s begin with the ones who like to lie... Why do they lie? Is it because they simply like to make fools out of people for the fun of it? Possibly... or do they live in denial?
Then there are those who are afraid. What are they afraid of? Is it because the truth hurts? Possibly... or do they fear hurting the one they love most?
Well... to those who like to live a lie, why are you still in a relationship? Why are you hurting the people you touch, hurting yourself, making a fool out of yourself, wasting your time, wasting your partners time, adding misery to those around you and without a care in the world? Well you’re in for a surprise... your life sucks. It’s marked by desperation, despair and loneliness. You make your own life terrible.
Well... there’s good news for you. Stop wasting your time, wasting others, you’ll soon realise... that the lie was your adversary, to really... enjoy life.
Truth... it’s something that always hurts. We are told lies from the moment we are born. To hear the truth... challenges the lies that we are told. No wonder... the truth is hard to hear. No wonder... people are afraid of the truth. Yet to those who are afraid... they do not realise that the truth will set them free. Still... you are hurting yourself, and the one you love. You’re holding that piece of information that makes you lose sleep, if your partner finds out they too lose sleep, wondering... You need to let go of it, and tell the truth. If you don’t your relationship may suffer as a result.
Unfortunately... there may be a downside to the truth behind your lie and secret, it may truly, really hurt. You may just lose the one you love the most. Yet... if you truly love them, you would go as far to tell the truth, to hurt yourself temporarily, to hurt your partner, to re-gain the trust of your loved one, even if you lose them. Even if you do, you’ll still have a good friend, someone who will look out for you and always be there for help in times of need. Yet... there’s hope. Time passes by... and love might spark again.
Fortunately... there’s a chance... that such a lie, such a secret, your partner... really just wants you to tell them the truth... that it doesn’t matter, that they’ll help, that they want to remove your anxieties, because they love you so much. They want to help you, in order to make the relationship grow deeper than ever.
The truth does indeed hurt. Yet, it’s already been forgotten. Yet it doesn't change the fact that I love you, that I’ll be with you with you for countless years to come.
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